Friday, April 30, 2010

Dont Give Up

This is a very sensitive topic and opinion varies according to circumstances and the things that every individual has gone through in their lives. My opinion on the matter of suicide is just an opinion but my opinion also stems from my beliefs that no one should ever take their own life. I can not say that I have ever actually considered suicide but the thought of it leaves anyone very, very heavyhearted. As easy as it is to say that one has the right to take their own life, its sounds kind of harsh. One has to consider that if someone is having thoughts of suicide it must be because they are going through a lot. I could understand why someone one would have those thoughts or plan to follow those actions but, that does not justify them because life gets better. Things always look up in life, one just needs to examine the things outside their circumstances and situation. Rather than looking at what is in front of you and out of your control look around and see everything else in life. Think of it like a really, really nice car and it just so happens to have a big dent in it from an accident. If all you see is the dent in that car your missing out on everything else about it, it still works and it still looks nice from other angles. We can easily become consumed by the current things in our life that it begins to take over. Although I know that a life has extremely more value than a nice car you could look at the metaphor in the same way. Look at the good things, and if there is nothing good around achieve to make it better and let that be your motivation. Strive for a better future in every way possible emotionally, physically, and mentally. Rather than seeing that dent and letting it define EVERYTHING. It might even be more than one dent, no matter how many dents there are there is nothing God ca not pull you out of. He has a plan and purpose for everyone. He breaks you down to build you up and in the end even stronger than you were before with an even sturdier foundation. For those of you who do not believe in that well just know that everything happens for a reason, as cliché as it sounds it so often said because it is so true. Life does get, and always will get better just hold on and see it through. Ask for help if you find that you can not do it alone. There is always someone there who will help as impossible or hard as that may sound to believe. Suicide is never justified as irreversible and low life can get. I could understand where one may be coming from and why they may see that as their only resort but the truth is that it is NOT. Just hold on and see what else life has to offer.

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